Being generally a goof-off, the purpose is to document the many ways that I goof-off. The format has drifted to the "A Day In The Life" series where the attempt is made to document each day's activities with a photograph from that day. We try to limit the photos to one per day. Sometimes that happens.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/31: Dave Ramsey Week Two
Monday, August 30, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/30: Dinner with Megan
Saturday, August 28, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/28: A Sad Reunion


Vivian was always our model for how a lady should dress and act, a beautiful lady in every way.
You begin to realize, when you attend a funeral, that you are connected to many people in your life in ways that perhaps had not been evident before. Sometimes you find that the person who has passed through the veil to eternal life has touched not only you but all who are in attendance. Sometimes the family has also made a difference in your life. The great thing, in spite of the sadness of the occasion, is that this important even draws us together again. It reminds us of happier times. It reminds me of lofty aspirations we once had that reality has quashed a little. It puts me in a situation where I can rejoice in other people's successes in life and enjoy the activities that they are involved in and who they have become. And I have been blessed to have know many people who have become great adults.
Today was one of those days. As we celebrated the life of Vivian Meese and the wonderful person that she has become, her family expressed their wonderful memories of her and her family. I was gathered with so many of the people that I knew as a youngster - some who were my companions in crime and others who were my Scout leaders, my church leaders and my examples.
These three speedsters managed to allow themselves to be caught as they zoomed through the parking lot. From left to right: Anthony Goodman, Curtis Meese and Kenny Slade.
Shirley (Slade) Brown
Debbie (Davis) Hurst
Allyson (Echols) Morris
John seemed to be involved in Scouting at all of the right times. I got to have him as a leader when I was an Explorer scout. Those were some great times.
Later, John came to our rescue when we discovered that the house we had been living in was completely eaten up by termites. I guess you could say, in the vernacular of the day, "our house was lunch." Although we had pest coverage and probably could have gotten a settlement through the courts, which would probably have taken years and years to resolve, John provided another option. He worked for a man who bought properties and fixed them up and resold them for a profit. Hopefully for a profit. John worked it out so that his employer would buy our house from us for what we owed on it. We lost some equity but we lost neither time nor additional monies on a house that we could not live in or sell. Gaye and I still talk about what a blessing John was in our lives at that time.
A Day In The Life - 8/28: Birthday Dinner With The Reeds

Doug and Daryn took us to dinner for Daryn's birthday. Somburros is one of their favorite spots and we love it, too. What a nice way to spend some time together since Gaye and I are serving in a different ward.

Friday, August 27, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/24: The First Dave Class
A Day In The Life - 8/23: Hero's Birthday
Happy Birthday to ME!
Happy Birthday, dear Hero,
Happy Birthday to ME!
Hero brought her family over to the house for dinner and to celebrate her birthday. She was so excited to finally be having a birthday. It had been a whole year! I know that is not news to most of us but when you are turning two, that is like, half of your life. When her dad asked her what she wanted for her birthday, her answer was, "Presents!" "What kind of presents?" "Cake!"
So we had presents and cake.
Finally it was time for them to say good night and head home. What a fun day.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/22: Putting on the Armor
So, here we are at church having a lesson on putting on the whole armor of God, and the instructor hands out bags of straws. And eggs. And everyone is supposed to make a package that the egg can fit into and be dropped without breaking. You remember - 4th grade science class. We're still there.
So here are all these guys, most between 20 and 30, outside in 110-degree heat, wearing dress shirts, ties and suits, testing out their "armor". Some cracked up right away and every time one went south the instructor would say something like, "You haven't been saying your prayers" or "You need to read your scriptures more." It was really funny. (Guess you had to be there . . . )
Saturday, August 21, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/21: Dave Ramsey

So, we heard that Dave was coming to Phoenix. But that was going to be quite pricey to go to the event to hear him speak. As Gaye, my wife, was telling this to a co-worker, she told us that he was speaking at a local church for free. Free is good. We are always looking for a good free date so this hit the top of our list.
Here are a few of the items he touched on during his 45 minute presentation:
- The scriptures affirm that people make mistakes and God still forgives them and uses them to do his work. The people in the bible who were perfect only get a line or two. The great stories are about people who really screwed up and then God used them to do a great work.
- You can't skimp on doing the right things. Sooner or later the truth will come out, the consequences will happen and, as he so eloquently put it, "you can tell who was skinny-dippin' when the tide goes out."
- Dave made a lot of money and then lost everything. He said that he found God on his way up but he got to know God when he hit bottom. And he learned a few things then. He said, "I whined a lot. It's a little known form of prayer." The bible is full of financial advice and counsel. If you really studied Proverbs you would have a masters in finance.
- The scriptures are the winning playbook from the Lord on how to not screw up your life. When you play this way you win. When you deviate, you don't do so well.
- Real stewardship is Lordship. If you are a good steward of the things that the Lord gives you then you manage your money (and other possessions) rather than have them manage you. You don't give in to your appetites but exercise self control. It takes discipline and pain to change how you do things and to become a good steward.
- The bible tells us that a wise man counts the cost before he begins to build lest he run out of funds before he is finished. (Luke 14:28)
- Provers 17:18 tells us that he who co-signs for a loan is stupid.
- Psalms 24:1 tells us that "The earth is the Lords and the fullness thereof." Everything is his to begin with. When we think we are giving something to god we are just kidding ourselves. He already owns it all and he is just lending it to us. We had better do something great with it.
- Proverbs 22:7 tells us that, "The rich ruleth over the poor and the borrower is servant to the lender." Don't borrow from others - it puts you in bondage. It restricts your freedom. It stops you from doing what you want to because someone else controls your life.
- MYTH 1 - Money is evil and so are people who have money. Money is NOT the root of all evil but it is the LOVE of money that is the root of all evil (I Tim 6:10). Money enables us to go more good. The Good Samaritan would have been forgotten had he not had some coin. He owned a fast, convertible mule which he place the man on to get him help. He paid for the help and lodging given to the wounded man. He had supplies to bind up the wounds. The poor Samaritan could have done nothing to help the man in need.
- Myth 2 - I can't become rich. Becoming rich is just like playing the piano or playing football. There are those who do it poorly and there are those who have figured out the rules and do them well. You can learn how to do it, too, just as you learn any other skill.
- Becoming rich, like learning to barefoot-ski, takes practice and pain because you are going to fall down a lot. But the Lord will help you if you seek him. (Hebrews 12:11) It will be painful at times. Keep at it until the light goes on and you get it.
- Get your act together first and then you will have opportunity to help others. David could not build the temple because of UFOs [Unclad Female Objects] even though he had the funds. So he passed the funds to his son, Solomon, so that he could build the temple. After we learn how to gather wealth, we need to take care of our family before we move on to helping others.
Gaye got us signed up for the classes. Although we are doing relatively well, we want to learn how to be extraordinary with out money. Dave told us of a family that made an investment that ended up paying them about $450 a month. What did they do with it? Each month they pray to find someone who they can help. Last month they went to a restaurant to eat. They had prayed for the Lord to show them someone who they could help while there were there. Then here comes their waitress. She is about 10 months pregnant and still working. Things are not going her way and she has all of these problems. This family is just smiling. When they left the restaurant, they left her a $600 tip. Can you imagine her day? And can you imagine how that family felt being able to help her? Isn't that a great story? You can't do that if you're poor, if you're barely making ends meet, if you're in debt up to your eyeballs. You are slave to the lender.
That is where we plan to go. Thirteen weeks of training on how to make money work for us better, smarter, faster.
Friday, August 20, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/20: The Desert In Bloom
This view was quite lovely and thought I would record it with the trusty camera for reference when I get to the point of choosing flora and fauna (I think they were twins) to brighten my yard. Take a closer look by double-clicking on the picture.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/19: A Mystery Solved
Back on the far side of my work complex I would see this truck parked behind the offices. At first I paid little attention. The sign on the door of the truck read, "Research Recovery Institute". Sounded quite boring, actually. Probably recovered crashed hard drives or something like that. Then I began to notice that there was a subscript below the main title - "Memorializing Your Loved Ones."
What? How does "Research Recovery" and "Memorialize Your Loved Ones" go together? I chewed on how those go together for days like a dog with a bone but could come to no satisfactory conclusion to the matter. I puzzled and puzzled until my puzzler was sore. I thought that, perhaps, it was genealogical / family tree research for deceased family members, perhaps. But things still did not quite add up for me.
When I could stand it no longer, I put the puzzle to some of my co-workers. They suggested that such a non-descriptive name just had to be one of those places where CIA or Mafia people use as job fronts and below this one-story building was a thirteen story basement with massive computers and research labs for new exotic equipment. We had some good laughs but still no good answers to the puzzle.
Finally, today as I was taking a stroll down at that end of the complex I just walked into the front door of the office and asked the receptionist what their company did. I was really concerned, though. The layout could have come right out of James Bond. The reception area was paneled in wood with a single receptionist desk and no way to see beyond to gather a clue as to what sort of business was being done, nor were there any plaques or pictures on the walls. It could be a CIA dummy office.
The fun thing was that the answer was just as intriguing as if it had been a spy front. She said that she wondered how long it would be before someone asked what her company did. She told me that the company provided cadavers to medical and research schools and facilities. Now THAT answer would have been scraping the bottom of my guess list. Well I wasn't hanging around there just in case they were short a body that day!
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/18: Work
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Cats Like Cubbys


So, the question about the cubbys - is it because they are cats or because they are boys. I know that I like to cave - go out to my "cave" and work or off to my "cave" to read or watch a video - especially when there are lots of people around. So, maybe I'm part cat. It would explain the whiskers.
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/11: Beginning of School Tradition
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/10: More School Prep
We were supposed to have Jennie and Kyle over for dinner tonight but Gaye had more to do. So we took the obvious option - go to Ted's for the best hot dogs this side of the Mississippi river. Of course, Jennie was in no mood to co-operate and insisted on sticking out her tongue and hiding behind her sunglasses. Some people's kids!
And after all of my hard work, how does she treat me? She drops me off at the church for my meeting with my bicycle so i can get myself home. Well what do you think of that?! More exercise time. I guess she really wants me to lose some more weight.
Monday, August 09, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/9: Setting up the Classroom
Sunday, August 08, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/7: Return From Utah
The next morning, Quentin and Jon had a basketball game scheduled for 8:00 am. There were probably a few minutes between their fun and the game for them to sleep.
When the basketball game was over, Jon and Q came to the hotel and we went over to Jon's Dad's house. Q and I had a great visit, with everyone anxious to show me their wonderful garden. I should say "gardens", plural. They not only have a great vegetable garden behind their house, they have corn growing by the shed, several grow boxes and hanging planters on the porch and a new place over the new root cellar for another one. It was spectacular.
I decided that our route home was to be via Las Vegas. Jennie had asked to use some of my M&M dispensers at her new job at the University of Phoenix but I was reluctant to lend that stuff. But, since I had to come home anyway, why not through Las Vegas by way of the M&M store? Now THAT was a fiasco.
We got to the store with no problem, thanks to the Driod GPS Navigator. But then, there was nowhere to park. Finally I stopped and told Q to drive around the block until I got what I needed. I had a bus honking and some security guy telling me I couldn't stop there - but then it was too late. I was out and Q was gone.
The store was crowded and busy, busy, busy. I finally picked out a couple of items and then had to wait in the line for several minutes to check out. I walked out the door and down to the corner where we had turned and called Q. He was already right at the corner where I was, so I jumped into the car and we were off.
This is the view of the bridge and waterway looking over the edge from the top of the Hoover dam.
Saturday, August 07, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/6: Mission Reunion
I received an invitation from a missionary sister (Carol Sanders Cluff) with whom I served in Switzerland, to a 75th birthday celebration for President Gary O'Brien a few days back and so I decided to attend. Gaye could not come with me because it happened to be the first official day back to school for teachers and she had to be there. But Quentin wanted to visit Nick Rasmussen and Jon Hendricks who both live in the Provo area and my activity was in Midway, off through the canyon from Provo so he came along.
We rented a car (since Gaye and I have decided that one car is all that we need because we commute to work together) and we were off at 5:00 am after a late night (11:00 pm) finishing up work and a really early morning (2:00 am) to do some work tasks before leaving. We took the Lee's Ferry route rather than the Page or Las Vegas routes because Google suggested it and because I don't usually go that way. The view from the west of Lee's Ferry back toward the east was splendid and so we made a quick stop to take the shot and see what was at the local roadside stands there.
When we arrived in Provo we had some time after checking into our Residence Inn to grab something to eat. We chose a place about a block west of the hotel. It was named Zupas and they are a gourmet sandwich, soup and salad place. I chose the Lobster Bisque and a Turkey, Bacon and Avocado sandwich with Honey Mustard dressing and a couple of strawberries covered in chocolate. Q had the same sandwich with a salad. He did not miss out on the extra strawberries, either. The soup was to die for and the sandwich was simply fantastic. It is a good thing that there is not one of these places in Mesa or Gaye could retire from cooking. But she'd have to get a second job to pay for my new addictive habit. It was really yummy-good.
The party/reunion was wonderful with one minor exception: not a single companion of mine was able to attend. I did see many people I know and loved from the mission but I missed those who I worked with. I imagine that Harry Payne would have been there if he could have made it and perhaps was. He always loved a good gathering and a good laugh.
As you can see, President and Sister O'Brien are looking great - healthy and happy. It was wonderful to talk with each of them again and hear their thoughts about the mission. It is said that no other mission president has been so successful in that mission as President O'Brien was.
John Lewis, one of my zone leaders, was there (on the left) and Rick Steadman, our mission musician, was also there. Rick, along with Carol Sanders Cluff and Roger Johnson and some others, master-minded this gathering. Thank you!
Chris (Millet) Kirschbaum also attended. She has lived for many years in Alaska and has recently moved to Utah again. She was one of the great sisters who was in my district. She and her companion had an exciting incident at their apartment in St. Gallen. They had to heat their hair curlers by boiling them in a pan on the stove to get them hot and moist so their hair would curl. They got forgotten and burned uo leaving this horrible residue all over the walls of their apartment. It would not scrub off. They called us and we came over from Herisau and we spent our P-Day helping them re-paint their apartment kitchen. That was a blast and so funny. It was the district humor for sometime after that.
Lynn Fredrickson (center) was one of those elders that was a bit earlier in the mission than I was and seemed elusive because I saw him at mission conferences but never worked with him. He was a great elder and worked hard but, unfortunately, I never got to know him well. He has been back to Switzerland more than 40 times since his mission, mostly on business with Hewlett-Packard. He also lived in Belgium for a while. The Elder on the left (Elder Stewart?) was another that I heard about but never got to serve with. I guess that you can't work with everyone. Too bad!
The grand-children of the O'Brian's performed some musical numbers for their grandpa. It was very fun and funny. One was a rendition of, My Favorite Things from the Sound of Music but with adjustments to make it personal to their grandpa.
As you can see, President and Sister O'Brien are looking great - healthy and happy. It was wonderful to talk with each of them again and hear their thoughts about the mission. It is said that no other mission president has been so successful in that mission as President O'Brien was.

Thursday, August 05, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/4: What A Day!
Quentin bought me the thumb drive at the left. It is actually much smaller than my thumb but the macro setting on the camera works just fine. This picture made me think back to Monday when Gaye realized that when we traded phones she had lost a voice mail from her Dad, who has since passed away. Having that voice mail, a message to her from her dad, was comforting to her. It made her cry that she had lost something that was so precious to her. So I went to the computer archives (thank heavens for backups) and found several audio files that I had made on a couple of visits with Gayle and Audrey that has him discussing different things with Gaye, Dawn and Gaylen. These won't replace what Gaye lost but at least she is not without the ability to listen to her dad's voice.

I need a chair.
I see a weed,
Sprouting up out there.
Get out the spray -
I'll kill that weed
Before it grows
And turns to seed!
Ariel is so creative and really uses that imagination. Paul and Jess brought the kids over for dinner . . . actually, we didn't have the kids for dinner, although they would have been very tasty. They ate a minuscule amount of dinner with us so that they could go play again.
And to end it all, I was really frustrated. After taking all of those pictures I could not get my phone to connect to my computer so that I could get the pictures off of it. I tried a myriad of things on the phone, looked for instructions on-line and finally went to cool down by watching some TV. Then Quentin tried it and also failed. So, at his suggestion, we shut down the phone, pulled out the battery and the simm card then started it up again. This time when we connected it to the computer it connected just fine. Now I know why pirates said, "Aaarrr" all of the time - their Droids weren't working right! (Not to mention the scurvy.)
Wednesday, August 04, 2010
A Day In The Life - 8/3: Tuesday Dinner Guests
Mom cooked up a great chicken and pasta dinner last night and we all ate until we were about to explode. I was so stuffed I couldn't fit in any ice cream! If she'd only had some J-E-L-L-O.
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